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Lady Lilac

Flower Farm and Floral Events

Bloom where your planted

About Lady Lilac

At Lady Lilac Flower Farm and Floral Events, everything we grow and design is rooted in care for the earth, for our community, and for each other.

What started as a small, family-run flower farm in Swanzey, NH has blossomed into a full-service floral design studio, creating flowers for weddings, funerals, everyday occasions, and spiritual gatherings. Whether we’re designing an archway filled with farm-grown blooms, crafting a casket spray to honor a loved one, arranging a bouquet to uplift someone’s day, or setting the floral stage for a ritual, ceremony, or workshop, every piece is made with intention, beauty, and heart.

We carry the same eco-friendly practices from our fields into our floral studio. Our work is guided by the values of reduce, reuse, recycle, and repurpose, from using reusable vessels and natural materials to composting our flower scraps. Sustainability isn’t just how we grow; it’s how we create.

We believe in working with nature, not against it. That means no plastic row covers, no herbicides, pesticides, or chemical fertilizers. Instead, we nurture our soil and plants using permaculture principles, compost made from chicken, horse, and rabbit manure, and natural solutions like fish and seaweed fertilizers, neem oil, and companion planting to keep pests in check. We even use biodegradable mulch made from cornstarch and practice low-till methods to protect the soil’s health.

We’ll be the first to admit, we’re still learning. Becoming as eco-friendly as we dream to be is a journey, and we’re constantly experimenting, growing, and finding new ways to do better for the planet.

But what truly makes our farm special is the family behind it. We're a husband-and-wife team who’ve poured our hearts into this dream, alongside our four amazing kids

  • Emma lends her hands (and heart) to everything, from helping to build our hoop house and farm stand to hours spent weeding under the sun.

  • Brianna supplies rabbit manure, loves to weed, and is always gifting our flowers to those she loves.

  • Tyler shares his knowledge and passion for Korean Natural Farming (KNF), helping us grow smarter and more sustainably.

  • Austin is the one we call on when we need strength and heavy lifting. He isn’t afraid to get his hands dirty and is always ready for any tough task that needs to be done.

We grow with love, and we design with it too, because we believe that beauty blooms best when it begins with respect for the land and the people we create for.

To learn more about our floral offerings, including our spiritual floral events, and how we can bring a little Lady Lilac magic to your next occasion, please don't hesitate to contact us today.

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Why Choose Us

Celebrating Every Love Story

We believe every kind of love deserves to be celebrated with beauty and joy. Our work is rooted in kindness and acceptance, and we’re proud to support LGBTQ+ couples and families with flowers that honor who they are and how they love.

No matter your story, we’ll listen closely and design with care, creating flowers that feel genuine, joyful, and true to you. Love is at the heart of everything we grow and create, and it’s an honor to be part of yours.

Sustainable Practices

Sustainability is at the heart of everything we grow and create. We’re passionate about nurturing the land as much as we nurture our blooms. That’s why we prioritize eco-conscious practices; reducing waste, reusing materials, recycling whenever possible, and repurposing with creativity and care. From composting and regenerative growing methods to using vintage jars and locally-sourced materials, we believe beauty and responsibility can grow side by side

Rooted in Community

We’re proud to call Southern New Hampshire home and to share our flowers with the people who make this place so special. Our farm and floral studio are built on connection, neighbors supporting neighbors, families celebrating life’s moments together, and a community that believes in lifting one another up.

When you choose Lady Lilac, you’re supporting a small, family-run business that gives back, celebrates local love stories, and helps our community bloom, one bouquet at a time. 

Our Team at Lady Lilac

The husband-and-wife team behind the magic! Kandi and Mike share all the farm chores-yes, even the chicken wrangling and weed battles. Kandi runs the show behind the scenes with business smarts, seed starting wizardry, crop planning, and harvest hustle. Mike? He’s the ultimate farm hand; compost king, soil guru, bed builder, irrigation master, and chief of all things construction.
By day, they both have full-time jobs. By night (and weekends), they pour their hearts into this passion project they call a farm. It’s a little dirt, a lot of love, and a whole bunch of teamwork.

And let's not forget Finn, the four-legged heart of our flower farm. With chickens to watch, blooms to inspect, and humans (a.k.a. Mom and Dad) to supervise, he keeps everything running smoothly; mostly from the comfort of his favorite shade tree. When he’s not lounging like a pro, he’s always up for a good game of fetch with his trusty tennis ball.

Equal parts charm and chill, Finn is living proof that a good dog makes everything bloom a little brighter.

What We Offer

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Wedding/Event Work

Whether you're saying “I do,” throwing a celebration, or hosting a special gathering, Lady Lilac Flower Farm is here to bring your vision to life with seasonal, farm-grown flowers. We specialize in custom floral designs for weddings, showers, parties, and events of all kinds—always using fresh, eco-friendly blooms grown right here in Swanzey, NH. From lush bouquets to show-stopping centerpieces, our flowers add a naturally elegant and personal touch to every occasion.

Our flowers are grown sustainably—no chemicals, no waste, just fresh air, sunshine, and the magic of nature. We offer a few special ways to bring our blooms into your life:

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Everyday Arrangements

Celebrate life’s moments—both ordinary and once-in-a-lifetime—with our everyday and special occasion floristry. From simple, thoughtful bouquets to flowers for birthdays, anniversaries, celebrations of life, and gatherings of all kinds, our designs are rooted in seasonality and intention. As a Southern New Hampshire florist, we use sustainably grown, locally sourced blooms whenever possible, creating arrangements that feel natural, heartfelt, and personal. Whether you’re marking a milestone or simply brightening someone’s day, our flowers are made to honor the moment and the love behind it

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Farm Stand and CSA

Enjoy the rhythm of the seasons through our CSA flower shares or by stopping at our farm stand for freshly cut bouquets. As a Southern New Hampshire flower farm, our CSA shares offer a joyful connection to locally grown, seasonal flowers harvested at their peak—making them a meaningful gift for flower lovers and a beautiful way to celebrate the growing season. Our farm stand features hand-gathered bouquets made with sustainably grown blooms, perfect for freshening kitchen tables, gifting to someone special, or adding a touch of everyday beauty to your home

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Gatherings/Workshops

Experience the magic of connection and creativity at Lady Lilac Flower Farm through our spiritual gatherings and workshops. Rooted in nature and mindful practice, these events invite you to explore your own creativity, honor the seasons, and celebrate life’s rhythms. From hands-on floral creations to mindful rituals and seasonal celebrations, there’s something for everyone to enjoy in a welcoming, inclusive space. Sign up for our mailing list to stay updated on upcoming gatherings and workshops!

Connect With Us

Dreaming up wedding flowers or farm-fresh florals for something special? We’d love to help.
Proudly serving Southern New Hampshire, Southeast Vermont, and Northwest Massachusetts with sustainable, locally grown designs and a whole lot of heart.

We celebrate all love stories and proudly support the LGBTQ+ community.
From weddings to everyday blooms, we’re here to make it beautiful.

Stay Rooted with Us

Want to know when new events or offerings pop up? Love being the first to see what’s blooming on the farm? Our newsletter is where we share seasonal updates, newly added gatherings and workshops, and special little offerings as they come to life. We only send emails when there’s something worth sharing—no spam, no selling your information, ever. Just a sweet way to stay in the loop with what’s growing, gathering, and unfolding here.

No clutter, just good dirt-under-the-fingernails news. 🌸

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